Michal cool, what if I do not want an obedient and submissive woman and I will not feel like this?
This means you are a beta or gamma male.
Although I am an INTJ type myself, I know that it is not a classically male type, it is definitely more masculine than INTP or INFJ, but still - it is a bit male sewing. This is an evolutionary decline from beta males.
I read that El Chapo was an ESTJ type, meaning classically male, classically, alpha male genes. Do you imagine ESTJ as eg gay? It's almost inconvenient.
In turn, for example, Conrado, chasing El Chapo, was both gay and INTJ type - that's what we're talking about.
The types INFP, INFJ, INTP, INTJ have some sort of pseudo-masculine role in society in a sewn-on manner, but they are not natural men and it shows.
One gay, another lonely eccentric like Tesla, or another like you - related to his older mother“ Auntie” . Well weak male, beta male genes.
As you can see, El Chapo is the classic alpha male genes. A young 30-year-old woman, another woman in turn, etc.