ViolentDesires In fact, even here on the forum you can feel that you have deficits in terms of interpersonal contacts and this is a fault, a weakness, and not a reason to be proud.
Inability to get along with stupid people is not a fault or a weakness.
If, for example, you are a very intellectually stripped man - then I could get along with you - if I were to pretend. If I were to pretend to be a man like you or the Breeder, that is, straight-thinking, thinking in black and white,“ laid back” . In short, if I had your so-called“ male energy” - read: being a laid back idiot.
Then we would get along. And I will say more - I could pretend such energy perfectly.
Do you think I can't pretend to be relaxed, straightforward and dynamic? You think that I can not hide my true views which are controversial and write according to Your current of thought?
But is this what life is about for me to lower my cognitive and intellectual skills to adapt to intellectual rams?
Your Breeder is not intelligent, he is“ straight-intelligent” just like you. Very simply hewn.
His statements are very pro-feminine. He mainly suggests that women are cool, cool, hypergamy, in fact, it's not too much, and it's enough to be without complexes and a nice guy and they will be yours.
These are such terrible half-truths, utter distortions.
But the point is that when you read such statements by e-mail - YOU WILL GET UP. The guy who says that is the guy who immediately suggests to your reptilian brain that he has no complexes, no frustration with women (in your opinion), just that he has yours.“ male energy” .
I have researched the topic thoroughly and I know women through“ male energy” they see a laid back extrovert who likes women and say that women are cool, normal, rather non-toxic, and toxic are you frustrated at what they are. It is someone who denies hyperergamy, denies reality, and distorts it.
And I repeat: I can PERFECTLY PASS yours“ male energy” . Most of my dates with POLISH women I met on the internet came from GETTING UP. Understand? PUBLISHING. I pretended to be a laid back guy with“ male energy” who likes women and does not believe in hypergamy, in feminine nature, etc. - AND THIS PRESSING made even some OF THE SELF INVITING ME FOR A DATE.
Do you understand what I am writing? I PASSED UP MALE ENERGY AND I CAN DO IT!
The whole problem is that:
DON'T WANT TO GAIN DON'T WANT TO DEFECT REALITY INTO A PRO-FEMALE DON'T WANT TO LIVE A LIE.
Hypergamy REALLY EXISTS, women DO NOT LIKE introverts (for the most part), women DO NOT LIKE being told the truth about themselves, women REJECT most men just to be super eager to be like me in Africa - white which is rare .
They were cute to me - and they probably rejected their black peers at the same time. And that's 80% of them.
You have to understand that your Breeder was simply BORN with a psyche conducive to women - the psyche of a straight-minded, black-and-white, dynamic extrovert. On the other hand, there is a MINORITY of such men.
The vast majority of them are NOT.
I'll tell you more, I'll show you an article from the excavation:
https://www.wykop.pl/wpis/29252299/anonimowemirkowyznania-od-razu-uprzedzam-ze-bedzie/
I am quoting an extremely important thing, read all of you, NOTE:
"In my case, it was about the sense of acceptance, the fact that one of them accepted what I look like, what I am, i.e. calm, shy, introvert. In Poland, I had to pretend that I was dynamic ** to go on any date at all. In the Philippines, I did not pretend to be anyone, and there were girls who liked me.
Now I really feel happy, I started work very hard, I am willing to work. I came to the conclusion that just because I don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean I'm a loser, contrary to what the pink say here. "
You see?
You see?
You see?
He had to SEEM DYNAMIC, he had to pretend to be someone he ISN'T - and it's not because he has complexes, but because what he is, he is predestined by the nervous system. Introversion is the nervous system, it's BIOLOGY, it won't change“ attitude to life” that's complete nonsense.
You see - the guy confirmed my words. He had to PUT DYNAMIC - exactly the same as I wrote to you above. When I PASSED DYNAMIC - DATING WAS! You know how many interested girls I had at such a sympathy, despite the rather ordinary, not ugly appearance, but such a 6.5 / 10.
Do you know what interest I had? Because I SPOT MALE ENERGY. However, at the meetings and afterwards, I did not want to pretend to be someone I AM NOT forever.
You think it's so hard to pretend like@Marcin90 writing“ ;)” , short statements, pretending to be mysterious, so that such a simple woman-cook like@hotkitty got excited? Anyone with an IQ greater than 100 would be able to do so.
ViolentDesires It's no secret that we sometimes like (some) older guys. In such cases, the difference of 10 years or more is not a problem. I showed you the relationship of Rubików and Urbańska with Józefowicz, where the age difference is 18 years, these are already married couples, they have children together. In both cases, women are attractive and could easily have younger partners if they wanted to.
I'm fucking man…
Urbańska got involved with Janusz because he gave her roles and allowed her to develop her career… this is typical legal prostitution, take what you even write about…
ViolentDesires I know many couples in real life who have a large age difference, often between 7-14, but sometimes larger. You question something that I know perfectly well from real life and that's why I know 100% that you are writing nonsense.
It makes no sense to have such a discussion. We need to talk about what we see ON THE STREET, because in the street we have an objective, neutral research plot. In the street you will see THOUSANDS, TENDS OF THOUSAND PAIRS. You know some there“ couples” from your narrow circle of friends with whom you go to some pseudo-banquets. We are talking about reality and therefore STREET. The street shows TENS, HUNDREDS OF THOUSAND PAIRS. The statistics show that the pair with a difference of 10+ is 5%, which is EVERY TWENTY GUY.
One in twenty do you understand?
You show me 40-year-old CHADÓW and show it as normal? What about the other 95% of guys?
95% of couples are almost peers, and in such a Warsaw it is at all.
Why is a woman associated with a 10 year older man? Because he excites her sexually? Not. It binds because it can give her something, e.g. money, career, social security, etc.
In Warsaw, women work in a corporation, have their own money, flats, which is why the age difference in Warsaw is MINIMUM, and what you write about 10+ is complete nonsense. It is something like that in the wiochach, not in Warsaw. Women in Warsaw HAVE NO LOGICAL REASON to bond with 10+ years older guys.
Tell me in a moment you or such a Breeder that I am a frustration because guys 10 years older can turn women on.
SO WHY DON'T YOU DO THE EXPERIMENT I gave you? Put on a Tinder, put a photo of the Breeder, set your age to 38 and tell me how many pairs you had with 20-year-old women. Go ahead, put a Tinder on a 40-year-old guy 6-7 / 10 with slight curves as you described him yourself.
I want to fucking see these couples xD
Man, I have a friend who's 26, looks a bit like a’ la Robert Lewandowski and do you know how many pairs he has? With 200. With young girls. And it does not look like a typical Chad, more like Lewandowski, i.e. a rectangular head, thick hair, slim, without muscles.
Based on his Tinder, I KNOW who naturally attracts young women and he is NOT a 40-year-old guy, with rare exceptions.
I repeat: stop talking about your friends, blah, blah, do you want the truth? IT WILL GIVE HIM A DAMNED TINDER or Badoo - this is the only way to verify whether your breeder REALLY attracts young women, or if he just talked about nonsense as a cunning manipulator - and you believed them, because you are a simple uneducated girl, probably doing modeling, which is generally a job for people with low qualifications and not very high intelligence.
Do you know how many people I know? More than you, because unlike you, I worked in several large companies, skyscrapers, during this time I have met a lot of people and I know that such age differences are a huge rarity, and I can also see it on the streets.
As I wrote - my 26-year-old friend is for me a confirmation of what really attracts women sexually - YOUNG MAN with a nice thick hairstyle, slim, ordinary boy, does not have to be a blast - YOUTH, COOL HAIR HAIR, THICK HAIR. He had more pairs than all those squat muscles at the age of 35 in the gym. MUCH MORE.
When I saw his Tinder I understood what really SEXUALLY STRUCK women. A cool young handsome boy, not a 40-year-old snapper. There are, of course, rare exceptions, but a Breeder cannot be one if, as you wrote, he is a 40-year-old 6-7 / 10 with slight curves.
Such a guy DOES NOT INCREASE WOMEN SEXUALLY.
There is no point in arguing, because it simply does not make sense - I will write A, you will write B - put on this Tinder or Badoo, do an experiment only for 1-2 days with photos of the Breeder and check if he REALLY ENVIRMES WOMEN SEXUALLY. Not some ass stories he told you, not some alleged ones“ Girls” . If he was such a detractor, he would have so many women on dating sites - THAT HE WILL NOT EVEN WRITE TO YOU ON BS, UNDERSTAND?
If a guy has sex and beautiful women in abundance, there is NO TIME for some fucking ass-talks on BS and forum pick-ups. He just has it in four letters THAT MORE that he knows that women are generally the same or similar anyway, so he wouldn't get excited about you, how you are not unusual and amazing because you wrote something on the forum.
The guy is a 40-YEAR-OLD HAPPY who, not having any particular excitement on dating sites, took up pick-ups on forums. These are my predictions, and I also see the situation with leto or other Rnext. 40-year-olds without a chance in NORMAL CONDITIONS to get a young woman - they found a plot where they have a chance - the BS forum, where women are told stories about handsome earned 40-year-olds, where women are told how normal it is, etc.
ViolentDesires It may seem that 5% of the first marriages of men to women 10 years or more younger than women, is not enough, but on a scale of tens of millions, it is hundreds of thousands. In addition, there are 10% of the first marriages of men to women who are 6-9 years younger, which is also a significant age difference.
Because it is not much, and there is no difference between 6-9 years, because if you want to add it - then add and the differences where the woman is older, and it happens comparably.
Here you are. 11% of guys 6-9 years older than women, but also 7% of women 2-3 years older than men, so as you can see, this has two sides. Generally, only 1 in 20 men have a wife 10+ years younger, so this is very rare.
Almost 75% of couples passed on the streets are couples with an age difference of:
a woman 2-3 years older DO a man 4-5 years older.
¾ pairs passed on the street differ no more than 4-5 years.
And 10+ is only 1/20 - and remember that we're talking about the entire USA here.
If you were to explore large feminist cities like Warsaw or New York, the age gap would be even smaller for a simple reason - because women associate with 10+ years older men usually when they give them financial protection, have a high social position, etc.
However, when women are highly independent, work in a corporation, have a good salary - they do not need one“ guardian” and choose a peer.
That is why in Warsaw this age difference is even lower and there it is probably 85% of couples with a difference of up to 4-5 years.
ViolentDesires In my opinion, if you were attractive, you would be attracted by girls aged 25, 5 years younger, and you would have no problem believing that Polish women like their older one. If you reject it so strongly, it means that you yourself do not have the interest of the younger ones.
I've never dated a woman your age. Each ex-partner had max. 26 years old, so maybe this will be a suggestion for you whether I am attractive or not It was more about character, I described it earlier. When I pretended to be a dynamic dating extrovert, there was no problem, the only question was, is this what life is about to pretend?
ViolentDesires What can I advise you that I have many friends in real life and I have knowledge from here, and you don't?
I have many more friends in real life than you, because I do not deal with dupo-modeling or other crap, but I have extensive experience in large corporations - during this time I have met probably more people than you can ever meet in your low-life life.
ViolentDesires No, it's generally attractive. He's handsome, he's got a lot of personal charm, and so on.
Make up your mind, because before that he was a 6-7 / 10 40-year-old with xD bends
And that has nothing to do with being handsome.
ViolentDesires Of course, it will be worse on Tinder or Badoo than in real life. But what of it?
The question is how much worse. Because I bet it is MUCH WORSE, that it will be just bad.
ViolentDesires Have you never heard that a guy has "it" important, something other than physical beauty?
Then make up your mind - it's about it“ something” or attractiveness. Well, because I agree that this“ something” you can act on women, because I did it myself, pretending to be a dynamic guy with male energy.
However, I explain to you that purely sexually - he does not arouse young women, because he is an old 6-7 / 10-year-old man.
And if you don't believe - let's not argue, put on Tinder and we'll see how many interested 20-year-olds xD will have. I want to see it.
ViolentDesires Nonsense. I wrote that much younger waitresses in the city flew to him. They didn't know him at all.
If it's a 6-7 / 10 guy with a slight bend then it's impossible, you must have misinterpreted the situation.
ViolentDesires You wrote yourself that you think ESTJ guys are universally attracted to women. Have you changed your mind about this? 🙂
Because it is, but we are talking about sexual arousal with physical attraction.
El Chapo as an older guy here:
He did not excite women at all. Do you know how I know that? Because I started Tinder with this photo.
And yet the same age here, El Chapo found a young 17-year-old wife. Why? Well: social, social strength, nature of ESTJ.
Therefore, let's distinguish between two things - sexually unattractive for 20-year-olds. A BREEDER CAN get a younger one thanks to being a dynamic ESTJ. However, let's delineate the matters:
Sexually attractive - NO. Not at all. Overall attractive - YES, it is possible.
If you do not agree with point 1 - no talking, no talking - put on Tinder, put a photo of it and tell me how many pairs he had with 20-year-old women.
Because my 26-year-old friend was over 200. And this is no Klaudiusz, it looks more like Łukasz Piszczek or Lewandowski:
It's such a young looking ordinary boy, a rectangular face, a nice thick haircut, but it's not Chad, it's not a muscle guy, just an ordinary boy.
His example showed me what really turns women SEXUALLY.