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This is the situation I would like to consider today.
While browsing Badoo recently, I realized how different the reality we see on Instagram, Tinder, etc. is.
Well, on Instagram, Tinder, etc. we are only observing super crap chicks with awesome HD 1080 photos, super students, Koźmiński, miracles of blindness.
Meanwhile, when I was browsing Badoo, I saw that women are of a much broader nature there and it is much easier to have a couple with them, to talk to them. Well, it paired me with a few younger 8-9 years old girls of 20 or 21 years old.
Many of these women there are women of various types: shopkeepers, clerks, girls more from the countryside, girls who, at the age of 17, fell in with their boyfriend, now 24-year-old pretty single mothers living somewhere in houses, e.g. 60 km from Warsaw.
Generally the cross section is much much wider than the‘ wonderful’ Tinder life. And what turns out.
Well, I don't even want to write with them, but I can see that a man set up like me (a senior programmer) can easily find a pretty 22-year-old girl from the countryside there, of course, you have to do a little fetch at the beginning, but there is no tragedy.
And besides, reality always remains.
So it turns out that a reasonably earned man can take a girl who is 9 or 10 years younger, maybe even a single mother sometimes, but one who simply had a mishap at a young age, it can happen to anyone.
An ordinary country girl somewhere, impregnate her once or twice, give her care, safety and that's it.
Well, it turns out that, in a way, a man can save money and earn a lot of money until he is 40, and then at that age, well-kept, already have a house and a flat - and look for a 28-year-old girl, assure her that she will be with you safe that you will take care of everything, fertilize several times and that's it. Of course, such a girl somewhere more in the style of Badoo, i.e. some kind of village there, sometimes even a shopkeeper - and why do you need more complicated ones?
Come on, I have already eaten the complicated ones - because of their complexity, with time, these are more problems than worth it.
In a way, we have a triumphant return to the countryside of a 40-year-old man who takes a poorer girl from the country, takes care of everything, sometimes even and will pay off some child from her previous relationship. He will give her a good life, let her come true, let her have a hobby, pay off for all that and that's it.
Such a man is simply more sedate and will give the girl more security:
The advantage of this approach is that you can postpone the topic of women and not think about it yet. In the meantime, you can meet women for casual relationships. Moreover, since you will have no pressure, getting to know it will certainly be easier.
And how do you start a family in“ normal” age, somewhere between 28-30 years old, then a whole range of problems comes right away - a woman is your age, you pay a lot of money instead of yourself, in a woman, in children, you invest in it all.
And it is also interesting that as a 40-year-old, if you don't come out with women then, you can always easily blame it on your age and say: well, what can I do, I'm a little older, maybe it's too late old and that's it.
This way - until the age of 40 you have a calm and relaxed head. And after the age of 40: you're also totally relaxed, because what can you do, it's too late, it's too late, it happens, it happens, hehe.
What do you think about it.