A man uses his maximum potential when he has the right motivation. In crisis situations, when he fights for survival, he shows hidden possibilities that he himself was not aware of.
It is similar with women, because reproduction is the second greatest male motivation after the desire to survive.
We have the theory behind us, let's move on to the practical part.
Forget about all Tinders, Likes, and pickup trainings offered by PUAs. The above methods are based on mechanical, repetitive activities. You draw a hundred women, one will answer, even if it does not deter you with the appearance, the chance that it will be to your taste or personality-matched is minimal. You will enter into a poor quality relationship with one, you will move a little, you will part - as the statistics show - within 3 years and you will continue drawing lots. Waste of time, energy, money, waste of life.
Would you like a woman who has drawn a hundred men and only you agreed to the relationship, so you are together? This is what you look like to women on Tinder.
My suggestion is as follows.
Look for a girl 10/10, the maximum of your type, before you talk to her, watch her long enough for you to feel that you fit each other, don't even come close without it. Find out as much as possible about it and then go all the way, don't even let the chance that she won't agree, play vabank. She will feel your determination, that you are motivated to the maximum, that you want her more than anyone else. This can put you in a position even better than the super handsome guy for whom he will be one of many. Of course, we are talking about a lasting relationship here.
An example of what I mean?
A scene from the movie Taxi Driver. The visitor watched her for weeks, finally came to her workplace and said what he wanted. Not much blinding, fancy texts, lots of details. It shows that the guy is determined.
On the same day, they met in a restaurant.
Do this, My Brethren, and I am giving you a great chance of success with women.