I will speak up, although some time has passed.
You can love many people at once, no problem, you love both your mother and father, right?
But in that kind of love“ bed” it is rather competition and you will rather have to choose, unless you put your own way and the gentlemen agree to it, although it probably won't.
Gentlemen, you get too far-fetched conclusions by assuming that everyone is a seducer. I also accidentally broke my relationship once, although I didn't want to, just because the woman couldn't contain herself and I was in love with her (maybe it was a form of pity on her part? Who knows). I would not suspect the latter that he would fall in love with a busy girl, but I would not exclude either.
To sum up: you can, but you don't have to. I would rather be stuck in something proven and choose the first option, but women love emotions and probably won't listen. With luck.