I am writing this topic on the basis of two topics from different forums. First:
concerning the inappropriate behavior of women and the lack of respect for men.
And the second, from the neighboring forum, a certain Maroon, about his friend's co-worker, who literally splashed him with warm urine, having a shit on his urgent matter.
Personally, I have been running a business in the field of IT for quite a few years.
I will give you a few points that determine the respect of women working with you:
Always be polite and impeccable when speaking formally, without reducing the conversation to a casual conversation.
The official tone of people, and especially women, is associated with the legal machine, courts, etc. in short - something that is not worth playing with. In addition, such a tone gives you a lot of room to show your anger, impatience, etc. for the future. Because if you show these emotions in the written and spoken word right away - you are actually firing yourself from everything you have at once.
Always dose your speech… control what you write, do not write too much, do not write too often. If you are calling and the phone will not be answered - it's best not to do anything first, not to write a text message or to make a call. This way you show that you are not desperate and panicked, but you are carefully observing the REACTION of the person you contacted - you took a step - now you are waiting for an answer. No answer ALSO will be the answer, and that person knows it.
Careful weighting of words, frequency of speech, etc. it causes more respect and fear from others towards you
When necessary - show emotions, but also in a dosed, subtle way. For example, once my co-worker did not answer the phone from me - I wrote a text message saying that I could not get through, I finished my statement with three dots. These three dots showed my impatience, but they showed me in a rather subtle way, without decisive statements.
Ask about the time to do something - even subtly, type“ and when will it more or less be done?” . Asking about time shows that you are monitoring the situation all the time, so you are not giving arguments to play and laze in cooperation with you.
These 4 golden advice meant that I personally did not have and do not have problems in cooperation with women. However, there are some women who will not be helped by this advice - but I can sense such women right away and they also sense me right away and see that we are unlikely to get along.
Applying these advice in a relationship and the stage of getting to know each other is not so good and I do not guarantee - because in the case of business, you give a person something that he really needs - cooperation with you means money for him and if he is not rich, and ordinary in this market - it cannot sell more contractors just like that. In the case of relationships, relationships and sex, the problem is that a woman does not need a man, he is not indispensable, she will survive without him. This is why you don't have the same cards in your sleeve in both of these hands, so you don't necessarily need to use the same 1-to-1 measures.