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The topic ends up in the Philosophy section, because that's what philosophy is more about here than just such down-to-earth arguments as the fact that a young woman is the best, etc.
The topic was started on the website: https://swiadomosc-zwiazkow.pl/d Why-kobiety-mezczyzni-rozczarowanija-sie-portalami-randkowych/
it relates generally to the situation with women from dating websites, but not only, their bizarrely high expectations and how to understand it.
It's not just that, my dear.
In all this, it's not just about the myopic, sensory need to have and impregnate a young beautiful woman.
I would say that in a way the fertilization of a 30-year-old Polish woman by a man is something like an act of surrender in this man.
We saw the user's behavior some time ago@hotkitty writing about the fact that she is 30 years old and now she is ready for a baby (first)… and similar bold declarations.
My dear. It is not normal for a woman in her 30s to give birth. It is a sick, abnormal condition. A woman's body is designed to give birth to children as a fertile, young, energetic smiling girl, not an aging woman.
I don't want 30+ users to feel bad here. Let me outline the situation a little differently; if such a woman already has children, then having more than 30 is not a bad thing as giving birth to another child. It happens, indeed, even my grandmother gave birth to more children in their 30s already.
However, the real problem is when a Polish woman becomes“ will go crazy” and she is kind enough in her 30s“ ready” that CAN give birth to children.
This is a real philosophical problem. We have a tragic situation in Poland in terms of demographics, low demographic, catastrophically low fertility (1.3, about 212 place out of 240 in the world in the fertility ranking). And now, the man readily agreeing to the terms of a mannered 30+ year old Polish woman and impregnating her after her 30th birthday, assuming this is her first child - is, in a sense, the man who officially announced the act of surrender.
He replaced the act of male victory in the form of fertilizing a young, pretty woman with an act of sad, bitter confession over vodka:“ Oh yeah, I lost, ahhhh..fuck it…” . Sad, bitter confession of a man who lost in the evolutionary struggle to win.
There is nothing to cheat, this is the purest truth.
Therefore, agreeing to such a thing is, in a way, putting your own brick in this tragic state of affairs, your brick for dragging motherhood by Polish women to later years, as well as the progressive bizarre demands of Polish women and the progressive degradation of demographics.
I would like to mention that it is impossible to explain everything with the mechanisms of hypergamy,“ and because women have such mechanisms” . The demands of Polish women are now also very much related to the BOREDOM of Polish women, caused by prosperity.
There was a rumor that Polish women on Tinder eagerly met for sex with black men. They were not even bothered by sex with such gentlemen:
Black thorns with food pregnancy… as you can see - it did not bother them at all, while to the Pole she would probably say:“ Yuck” . So, as we can see, women's tastes in Poland are now exaggerated also because of ordinary boredom - they get bored, they are just TOO GOOD, my grandfather would say: the asses get overwhelmed.
This is exactly the truth.
A Polish woman is bored, so on Tinder she looks for colorful professional photos of a cool and boldly presenting guy from Poland, or a black guy, a foreigner…
So we can see that it is not only about hypergamy, but also about certain canons of the present beauty, of what the media presents to Polish women as“ pretty” , the current fashion in terms of the guy's appearance (of course, in the eyes of a Polish woman it does not apply to black people, i.e. fashion requirements), etc.
Therefore, a Polish woman is not“ forced biological” the mechanisms of hypergamy reject an ordinary Polish guy - none of those things. The lady is simply BORED, she simply presents disgusting human flaws, such as vanity, astonishment, boredom, malice.
And now a Pole who impregnates a 30-year-old Polish woman, is in a way a man who says:‘ YES! I AGREE! YES! THIS CAN FURTHER CONTINUED, IT DOESN'T BACK ME!’ .
So this is a triple screw-up: not only does he put his hand to the tragic demography, he not only agrees to the development of their disgusting qualities in Polish women, but also admits to his male surrender in the sense of the pure evolution of fertilization of a young healthy woman.
I hope it will give some people food for thought.