Limes
Limes Yes, watching that forum, it is not hard to guess that if it is someone from BS, it is the Crocodile Breeder who defended you like crazy.
Yes. :)
Limes However, with a friend @buncol Here we were wondering what this masculine ESTJ guy has in him that girls run at him terribly.
Really, almost all women go to the ESTJ guys, ENFP girls, ENFJ, well, even ESTJs like you go for the same ESTJ.
In the case of the Breeder, it is not about the ESTJ type itself. ESTJ guys account for 11%, and I definitely don't react that way to every tenth guy.
Therefore, I would be careful with these psychological types, because they do not cover everything. Other ESTJs, 11% of whom I have certainly met a lot, do not turn me on half as much as ESTJ Breeder. The ESTJ is uneven, and I'm not just talking about the looks.
However, it seems to me that the ESTJ generally hits our fantasies about the dominant, specific guy.
Limes The question, however, is whether it makes sense to change a bit for Polish women. It may be that an INTJ genius like me has enough predation for Filipinos, and for Polish women who are very aggressive and sharp women, such an INTJ guy is simply not predatory enough.
I don't know how much you can really change. It seems to me that some things can be changed in a person, but some are innate. I am very familiar with the astrological perspective according to which a person is assigned traits at the time of birth.
I had a disagreement with the Breeder on this matter. He believed that he had changed for the better under the influence of PUAs and intense partying and chasing girls. In my opinion no, in my opinion he was always like that inside, it was just suppressed by his upbringing and bad experiences. In my opinion, his subsequent actions did not change him at all, but, on the contrary, brought out his true personality. I asked him what a child he was. :) Of course, it turned out that he was a dominant, fierce and vengeful child. :) What“ by chance” corresponds to his astrological Mars in the sign of Scorpio. :)
I can be very aggressive and violent, I am just like him ESTJ. I also have Mars in Scorpio, how interesting“ coincidence” . 😂
Great description of Mars in Scorpio:
https://www.liveabout.com/mars-in-scorpio-mars-signs-206875
You’ ve got the classic smoldering intensity and look a little dangerous, too. You’ ve got great stores of emotional power and sexual energy stirring within. You come across as observant, self-controlled, and yet ready to pounce on an opportunity.
You’ ve got animal magnetism, and furthermore, you know it. You attract because of the steam you generate that is palpable. You’ ve got hungry eyes, which is another turn on for those whose gaze you meet.
You’ ve got animal magnetism, and furthermore, you know it. You attract because of the steam you generate that is palpable. You’ ve got hungry eyes, which is another turn on for those whose gaze you meet.
This is a great fit for me and the Breeder.
Limes Well, I would not fully agree here. This "submission" of ESTJ women is not so submissive either. I had sex with a woman, apparently ESFJ or ESTJ, well, she was a submissive, but she also instructed me what best we should do now, what position - even if she gave me 100% guidance - she commented a bit, aha, now we do this, now that, it was obvious that he wanted to be in control.
That's why I don't believe in this female ESTJ submissiveness, absolutely never.
Note that we are talking about a situation where a man has an exceptionally strong influence on me. Besides, he's great at it, and I have no idea what to improve on him. If it were otherwise, I would also be different.
Limes That's it.
Oh, submissive, pretty wife.
In fact, they look like a nice married couple. :)
Limes I have the impression that guys with a very high ego like me or Najman need just such women, they won't get along with ESTJ or other predatory women.
In my opinion, this is not a question of ego, but“ predation” . I feel in the forum contact that you are too eccentric and“ intellectual” and not enough“ predatory” . It might upset you, but I feel like I'm a lot, a lot from you“ stronger” and I couldn't have such primal, predatory respect for you.
In my opinion, we would not fit together completely. Because your very high ego probably tells you to be treated like a king and my instinct is telling me that“ belongs” You only get a low position.
I think you can have a lot of problems with women for something like this, not only with ESTJ. Because yours“ intellectual” the ego tells you that you are king, but women can see you as“ beta with an inflated opinion of himself” .
Limes Honestly, I thought that I would provoke you in a way and make you aggressive, hehe, but quite coldly and ESTJ-owl you replied, "baby". I like to write to girls, baby, but 180 cm ... er ...
I don't quite know what you were trying to provoke me with. :)
An attack on Polish women? I do not care. :) If you are not doing well with Polish women, then you should look for happiness in a market where your value is higher. For me it is simple and I don't see any reasons to get excited here. :)
Limes You are another confirmation of the theory that is already here with @buncol we coined and described:
I will try to read them, but later, now I don't have time.
Limes In these three topics (but there were also others), we thought about what an ESTJ or ESTP guy has about him that women are really fond of him, even on a forum where my colleague Breeder of Crocodiles HAS NOT HAVE HIS PHOTO. And yet, women instinctively sense this type from their statements.
I'm not sure if they go to the Breeder on the forums. He is not trying there, he openly reveals his aggression and talks about a large number of partners, which may be afraid of him. :)
On the other hand, snatching ME out through the internet forum is a great, great achievement. It is like punching your head through a concrete wall. 🤣
Yes, I saw after the statements that the Breeder is great. For me, e-mails with him were just honey, never in my life I had such a good experience with anyone. However, we are both ESTJs, and we have many things in common, views, and so on. Maybe another woman would like him less well?
On the other hand, women certainly like the Breeder in real life. My friends like him very much, he also had a very nice ex and so on.