buncol The problem arises when we get used to the fact that someone presents a certain, fairly high level of reasoning, then we take his opinion seriously, and he burns some nonsense from time to time, just like that, because he doesn't want to think.
Hehe, you probably drink to me here, buddy.
You still have to keep your distance from it all.
Someone will tell me that I have a distance, because I am the owner of this forum and I suppose I can do more - but that's not true, after all, you can use harshness to me, you can write as you write now (where I think you also drink to me implying that I burn nonsense sometimes). This is the specificity of the forum, I don't know how you can get so stressed about it.
As Borek said, he has the impression that Poles generally take everything too seriously, tense up, and yet life is short. And she's right here. I still understand if someone gets tense and stressed at work, because it is a place that gives you bread, although here too, thanks to high savings, I do not strain too much, or at least I try. However, on the forum? Come on.
The primary remedy is to ask yourself:“ And even if XXX” even if this and that happens, so what? Even if you got fired, so what? You'll find another one. Here I am talking more at ease, but the savings did not come from nothing, that's why I was doing them to have such a mental ease right now.
Even if someone criticized you on the forum, WHAT'S ABOUT THIS?
Even if my life wasn't as successful as some, WHAT'S ABOUT IT? So what exactly?
Such a question immediately heals the psyche because you are relaxed: maybe he has a better life, well, maybe in a year I'll catch up with his life. You give yourself such hope and take it easy.
People tense up to achieve something, to have a high position in the eyes of others, and they do it to feel good - they just forget that they won't feel good if they feel good.… they clasp. And a vicious circle closes.