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I've already written an article about El Chapo.
El Chapo is an ESTJ type - he had a lot of women even though he wasn't tall again, classically handsome, etc. He wasn't always the drug king right away either. And yet he had women after all, one after the other. One, another, three wives. Even as a 48-year-old, he found an 18-year-old and married her. Nobody can tell me it's just about the money. It is more than that.
This type, ESTJ, can be said to have a natural knack for meeting women. It is really pure natural.
The case of Ted Bundy, for example, is fascinating’ ego, serial killer:
it turns out that his friend from school mentioned that although he was a really good-looking guy
he wasn't dating and she felt sorry for him.
Bundy himself said he wasn't afraid of girls, he just didn't know… what to do with them.
And here we come to a fascinating climax.
In my opinion, this is where you should stop, because it is a very deep matter.
As a handsome young high school boy, ENTP type (N, not an S sensor!), Bundy DIDN'T KNOW what to do with women.
And that's the clue of everything. I understand if it would be a guy with an experience, who doesn't know anymore, after divorces, etc. But here we have a young boy, ENTP type, who doesn't know it. What is going on? In my opinion, this is a very deep matter, rooted in genes.
The ESTJ or ESTP types NATURALLY know what to do with women. It is pure GENETIC NATURAL. It is natural. S as sensors are usually more aggressive, more impulsive, all handling of women in such ESTP or ESTJ is natural, it is pure natural derived from genes.
On the other hand, the good-looking, but nevertheless genetic heir of BETA Bundy MEN did NOT KNOW what to do with women. As I coined in another theory, N-intuitive, are the genetic heirs of beta males.
I am deeply convinced that the N-intuitive male types are a genetic decline from beta males. And even if they look reasonably well until some age there.
In turn, S-sensors, in most cases, are natural heirs of alpha males.
So, continuing to do so, your personality type is of great importance.
Women like men who look like the kind who can fuck their nerves.
I know this is a controversial theory, but I think so. It's not that he will really do it. The point is that S-sensor looks like a more impulsive guy, more driven by simple aggression and instincts and the woman instinctively feels that she can get hit from him sooner, feels more his sexuality and determination.
This is a deeply ingrained evolutionary connotation behind male attraction to women.
At a relatively young age it blurs a bit, ie N-intuitive can be attractive to women, they can look like pretty boys, and in fact many women even like to look more delicate.
Or at least she doesn't mind.
But what if it comes down to what, then such N as he says himself, does not know what to do with a woman.
Of course, with time, he will develop some skills with women, but still, I think that Ns have much more trouble with women.
Sensors? Even when such an ESTJ gets divorced - I know ESTJ after divorces, after breakups - a fucking few months and it's already another. It is pure natural.
I also know INFJ and the like after breakups, they can be alone for years.